Do i have the right to be angry?

Suitter13 (9:09:08 PM): heyy

HElNNiE (9:09:15 PM): hey

SuSitter13 (9:09:59 PM): its wed @ edgmont we pick u up @ 7 15

HxANNiE (9:10:28 PM): what?

SSitter13 (9:10:51 PM): my mom want to no if siani can get a ride to ur house and we pick u both up @ ur house and bring u home

Sur13 (9:10:59 PM): the movie

HEiE (9:11:08 PM): wheres egmont/

Su13 (9:11:08 PM): 7 15 PM

Ser13 (9:11:19 PM): idk in edgmont

Suter13 (9:11:30 PM): its a regal theater

HElliE (9:11:39 PM): okaayyyyyy well ill let you know

Ser13 (9:11:45 PM): k

[Screen Names chopped up for privacy.

I am the one that starts with the H my friend is the S.

Well heres the thing SHE only mentioned about the movies then she goes and makes plans with out asking? She never asked me or siani. WTF? She tottaly ticked me the hell off. She always does this. And why cant THEY pick up siani since THEY are driving? UHHH it may seem like a little thing but she always does this. My question is do i have the right to be mad? UR Oppion.

Do i have the right to be angry?performing shows

shhyea you do! and i think before you get more mad you should talk to her, if this happens, its more likely it will keep hapening and your just going to get more and more angry and onday explode either on the wrong person or on a little matter. take care of it before it gets too bottled up

Do i have the right to be angry?say yes opera theater

I think I'd be angry, but I wouldn't make a big deal about it. I'd just tell her that I've got to ask before she makes plans. If she gets mad, she's not a good friend. If she does this AGAIN after you tell her you have to ask, tell her AGAIN. She'll get the picture.
No. This person wanted to go to the movies or her Mom did, and she thought of you and how she'd like to also share that fun with you.

How can you be irritated?

Here is a person making an effort to include you in her life and she has no idea that this is irritating you.

Just tell her that your folks require more notice than that and politely decline. That sucks, though, because you are gonna miss out of a lot of fun that she might have invited you on in the last minute.

Maybe it's her Mom who makes the last minute decisions to go do things and then asks her to go ahead and invite some friends.

Don't look at her as an inconvenience and think of all of her experiences that she would love to share with you.

John G
Grow up child. I can't even find a reason in that whole paragraph to be mad. But leave it to kids to get mad over nothing.
yeah you have the right to be mad

thats weird how someone would plan something like that
kay
Yea you do
The conversations just makes this situation a lot more confusing to us Answerers.
Well here's what I think: Judging from that paragraph that you pasted ... nothing really make sense ... everything is ... well discombobulated ... like she is talking about something ... your just completely confused ... so if were you confused ... then so are the Answerers. I think everybody has a right to feel the way they want to feel about different situations ... so if you feel like being mad over this ... then you can be mad ... you don't need us to tell you how to feel ... because we really don't understand what is even going on. But I think that you should atleast ask her why she planned something and didn't even confront you and your friend about it. She also should have got the "okay" from you to have someone come over your house. Maybe you should talk to her about that ... you said she always does things similar to this ... well maybe she wouldn't if you told her how much it bothers you. Because if she really is your friend ... then she would take what you tell her into consideration. So don't be mad ... just yet ... until you try to work things out.

-- hope I helped
If you get upset about little things like this all the time you'll have no time to have fun! I don't know--if you say she does this to you all the time, then it can get annoying. Maybe she just thinks that she has to make the plans all the time because no one else suggests anything in particular. Have you ever suggested something only to have her change the plans?

And about your mutual friend getting a ride to your place (if I understand the situation correctly), there might be reasons that you don't know for that. If it upsets you, ask about it.

I'm not saying that you have the right or don't have the right to be upset. It upsets you and that's what matters. But to me it seems like no biggie.